Friday, January 30, 2009
the end for 3 years of studies in RP (UNOFFICIALLY GRADUATED)
3 years of ups and downs
heavy heart and unwillingness in saying good bye
many thoughts and many feelings left unspoken
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Thursday, December 11, 2008
can we sit down n talk?
can we solve all e problems together?
can we come out wif a workable plan?
it take 2 hands to clap,
it's goin to tak US
to solve everything,
to carry on wit OUR journey.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
A year have gone,
there were ups and downs
and yes,
I'm glad that we pull through this 1 year together too.
you took me
to lots of places that I never been before,
to do lots of things that I never done before,
to eat lots of food that I never ate before,
adding colors to my black & white life.
I will like to thank you for giving me all these
and like what you say,
we shall continue our journey
adding on more colors
I love you my girlfriend. =)
Monday, October 20, 2008
[Troy]
Once in a lifetime
means there’s no second chance
so I believe that you and me
should grab it while we can
[Gabriella]
Make it last forever
and never give it back
[Troy]
It’s our turn, and I’m loving’ where we’re at
[Both]
Because this moment’s really all we have
[Troy]
Everyday
of our lives,
[Gabriella]
wanna find you there, wanna hold on tight
[Troy]
Gonna run
[Both]
While we’re young
and keep the faith
[Troy]
Everyday
[Both]
From right now,
gonna use our voices and scream out loud
[Gabriella]
Take my hand;
[Troy]
together we
will celebrate,
[Gabriella]
celebrate.
[Both]
Oh, ev’ryday.
[Gabriella]
They say that you should follow
[Troy]
and chase down what you dream,
[Gabriella]
but if you get lost and lose yourself
[Troy]
what does is really mean?
[Gabriella]
No matter where we’re going,
[Troy]
it starts from where we are.
[Gabriella]
There’s more to life when we listen to our hearts
[Both]
and because of you, I’ve got the strength to start
Yeah, yeah, yeah!
[Both]
Everyday
of our lives,
[Gabriella]
wanna find you there, wanna hold on tight
[Both]
Gonna run
while we’re young
and keep the faith.
Everyday
[Troy]
from right now,
gonna use our voices and scream out loud
[Gabriella]
Take my hand;
together we
will celebrate,
[Gabriella]
Oh, ev’ryday
[Troy]
We’re taking it back,
we’re doing it here
together!
[Gabriella]
It’s better like that,
and stronger now
than ever!
[Both]
We’re not gonna lose.
‘Cause we get to choose.
That’s how it’s gonna be!
[Troy]
Everyday
of our lives,
[Gabriella]
wanna find you there, wanna hold on tight.
[Troy]
Gonna run
while we’re young
[Both]
And keep the faith
Keep the faith!
[Choir]
Everyday
of our lives,
wanna find you there, wanna hold on tight.
Gonna run
while we’re young
and keep the faith
Everyday
from right now,
gonna use our voices and scream out loud
Take my hand;
together we
will celebrate,
Ev’ryday!
Live ev’ry day!
Love ev’ryday!
Live ev’ryday!
Love ev’ryday!
Ev’ryday!
Ev’ryday!
Ev’ryday!
Ev’ryday!
Ev’ryday!
Ev’ryday!
Ev’ryday!
[Gabriella]
Ev’ryday!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Friday, July 11, 2008
Lover's Quarrel
(read it on http://www.articlealley.com/article_16963_35.html)
One minute you seem like lovesick turtledoves teasing, laughing and giggling with all your might. Then a few minutes later, you begin yelling and berating each other and a lover's quarrel is already in progress. A little bantering was all it took to stoke up a rising emotional tension.
Every now and then, no matter how close and intimate a couple is, an argument occasionally looms to create a tide in the relationship. Although sometimes it shakes a relationship down to its very core, if handled well, it is healthy and can help create lasting relationships.
Here is a list of what couples like you usually argue about and what you should do whenever you are faced with another petty bickering.
Individual Differences
When you first met, it may be the similarities you found with each other that instantly created the bond and rapport. However, as you knew each other better, it's your differences that potentially fashioned the strength of your relationship. Hence, it is important that you value the differences that make you unique as a couple. Perhaps, there might be times when you may want to change your partner into your view of his potential. But even if you'd succeed in your crusade, chances are you'd lose respect for him for allowing you to have done it and for not having the personal strength to be himself. So it is better that you both learn to compromise and meet halfway every time a conflict surges. Be ready to recognize each other's weaknesses and learn to appreciate what the other has to offer. Instead of seeing yourselves as separate individuals, practice seeing each other as an aspect of yourselves. In this way you shatter the illusion of separation and bridge the gap that's keeping you asunder.
Unmet Expectations
When a dispute recurs but too many times like a bad case of athlete's foot but you have no clue as to what's really causing the problem, odds are it was because your partner did not meet your expectations or he didn't meet yours. When expectations are not met, a spat usually ushers in. Depending on the expectations you may want to concede in your relationship, it is highly commendable that you bring your expectations upfront from the very start of the relationship. Determine which expectations are most important to you and which are most important to your partner. Spend some time tossing around what you both desire and need from the relationship and what you must have and won't tolerate from each other. Remember, love works best when it involves both give and take.
You're-Wrong-I'm-Right Attitude
Instincts often tell us not to give up and admit defeat in times of disagreements especially if we are certain that we are right. But come to think of it, does it really matter who's right and who's not? In a relationship, it is never good to assert too much if it means you could hurt your partner. Let go of having to "be right!" If you must speak up, do it lovingly. Never tell your partner that he is wrong straight in the face. If you do this, you may just stir a storm in a teacup and set about a violent outburst. Instead of having to be RIGHT, decide between your mate that it is more important to be HAPPY. Discuss in a loving way areas of mutual concern then agree on certain terms so that you prevent yourselves from meshing with future disagreements.
Monday, June 16, 2008
a few miss calls
a few un-replied sms
but i still don't know what happen
where are you?
what happen to you?
or are you jus doin tat dun wan to talk to me thing again?
haiish
a lost soul here
BurningHeart, creator of the background.haha.
Imarionette for suggesting the color, and the maker of the layout (limmdt).